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Event name: Psychology and Rope with DJfet                               
Event Date: 30/05/15 (DD/MM/YY)
Start Time: 10:00                                                        
End Time: 18:00                                                        
Description:
Tickets will be released Wednesday May 6th. Go to website for information on how to get tickets.

Biography

DJfet is an award winning mental health nurse and a complete rope addict. She has spent the last 10+ years the field of mental health participating in some of the world's most cutting edge research in her specialist field of psychological interventions. In addition to this she has contributed to several national nursing journals and blogs. In other words... she knows her onions. She has spent the last 4 years studying Shibari as both a rigger and a rope bottom, frequently using her skills as a psychiatric nurse to hone in on her rope bottoms.

Event description

There is a lot written about connection between rope partners and how all the interesting Shibari is all about the connection. However, connection goes beyond being close to your partner. During the workshop DJfet will endeavour to delve into the psychological perspective of rope, the effects it has on us, and the different individual approaches to rope.

Introduction:

To gain some understanding at our levels of understanding and knowledge gaps within the group and ourselves.

Session 1:

What makes rope so therapeutic? From birth to death there is a process of socially acceptable binding and that leaves an imprint in our psyche. Unpacking and taking a closer look at touch and restriction throughout life stages and how touch and restriction can have a direct influence on our mood and mental state. From this we will touch on bondage and its use within common mental ailments such as low mood, anxiety, and loneliness.

Please note that this is not to advocate bondage over seeking advice from your GP nor does this advocate bondage over medication or other therapeutic regimes as set out by your mental health team.

Session 2:

Stereotypes are an essential way for us to make sense and understand our world around us. Rather than being the 'bad' thing they are marketed to us, we will be examining social stereotypes including gender stereotypes, what they mean to us, and why they are so valuable in understanding our individual worlds. From that we will look at the stereotypes within the BDSM community: Top/bottom, Dom/sub, Master/slave. What the core values of these roles are and why people assume them. The purpose of this is not just to know your partner but to really get to know and understand your own motivations for the roles that you take on. From there it will be how we can incorporate this with our partners needs and desires.

[Lunch break]

Session 3:

"Different approaches, same activities, different headspace." Attempting to understand why an individual may do the same activity as someone else but get different pleasure from it and a different psychological kick.

Session 4:

Rope! There will be rope at various points during the day but this is an opportunity to pull together all learnt knowledge and apply it to your rope partner.

Session 5:

Q&A - a free house to ask any questions about the day or residual questions about rope and personal experience.
Skill level required

None. Minimum knowledge: An enquiring mind.

What to bring

Between 1-4 hanks of rope, there will be no suspension. 
Dress Code:
Anything comfortable. 
Cost of Entry: £30 per person / £60 per couple                            
Venue:
Apiary Studios
458 Hackney Road, London E2 9EG 
Map: A map.......        
Website: http://popupropeevents.co.uk                                  
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