This is a small and friendly BDSM party at a lovely old Edwardian vicarage in Sutton, South London. Hang out with fellow kinksters, dress as you like, socialise and play all you like in the dungeon for five hours!

There is no pressure; the atmosphere is relaxed. However, the dungeon is well equipped. There’s a cage, cross, whipping bench etc – and why not also bring your own toys.

Our resident male dom is on hand and our dungeon master and rope bondage expert is usually around. Dominatrixes are admitted free of charge (just message us for a free ticket!), so it’s a great way for dommes and subs to meet in a relaxed way.

We don’t care what age or body shape you are – just be nice people! And of course, be into BDSM in some way or other. Newcomers are warmly welcome – you do not have to be “hardcore”.

You can absolutely wear whatever you like – fetish dress is warmly encouraged (although not compulsory). There is a changing room and two showers, so you can arrive in your street clothes, transform yourself at the vicarage, then change back to go home.

Bring your own booze. You are welcome to bring some nice cake if SM makes you hungry! The vicarage is near Sutton station – we can pick you up there with pleasure. (The exact address is emailed to ticket holders.) This is a non-judgemental, inclusive space, women-friendly, t-girl friendly, very relaxed. A place to live out your SM desires among friendly people. 

There is no compulsory dress code – you can wear what you like. A few guys cross dress, some women wear fetish, one gentleman always wears nothing at all and quite a few people coming directly from work wear ordinary clothes. (Always arrive in street clothes, though, so as not to alarm the neighbours! You can change and shower at the venue.)
 

The Old Vicarage, Sutton, South London